People want to look good in their photos, but they tell you they won’t pose for it or they won’t be directed. Sounds familiar? It does to me … weekly …
When I meet with potential clients one of the things I hear a lot is that they are not willing to pose for a shot, they want it all very natural and spontaneous and they don’t want to be told how to stand & what to do. What do you think, is that possible? No?
Think again!
As a photographer you are in the perfect spot to get people to do whatever you want them to do, the key here is delivery. When working with professional models you can simply tell them what to do, and because they are pro’s it will still look very natural. Not so when working with couples … They will freeze up and you get very posed, unnatural, uptight looking shots.
How can you solve that ? Well, let’s find out what makes for a truly natural, spontaneous, romantic image.
First of all and withouth a doubt the most important element: the couple is relaxed.
When a couple takes place in front of your camera, they feel a bit awkward, silly maybe, don’t really know what to do or what you expect from them.
This is where your charming, funny, communicative personality comes into play! Make them laugh by either telling a joke or acting silly. If you act a little crazy they will feel less silly and thus more at ease.
On a sidenote : watch out which jokes you tell, they might not have the same sense of humour as you do. Making a joke about yourself though works almost every time and it tells them you are a relaxed, down-to-earth person.
Earlier this year I was working with a couple and I wanted her to sit on his lap with her legs in a certain direction. I walked up to them and asked the guy to take a seat, then explained my idea and added “but I’m not gonna show it to you since that might hurt a bit”. Take into account I weigh a bit more than might be healthy in combination with the mental picture of me sitting on the guys’ lap and you have instant laughter. The mood was set, they felt more at ease & acted more relaxed.
Time for step 2 : Make sure they look more at each other than at you.
Face it, we have been taught from when we where a baby to look into the lens of the camera. Look at the birdie this, look at the birdie that. Forget the birdie! Having them look into the lens = posed, and that’s what we are trying to avoid here.
So how would you handle that ?
Simple, just have them tell you what looks best. Ask them what looks more natural & unposed to them : a shot where they look at each other or a shot where they look straight at your camera. They will tell you, obviously, that it’s the one where they look at each other. Bingo ! They get the point and you are one step closer to a very relaxed, natural portrait.
(if they keep looking at me I always ask them who they would rather look at, me or the person they love and want to spend the rest of their life with : unless they are having a fight, this always does the trick
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So where are we ? The couple is now relaxed & no longer constantly looking into your lens. We are getting pretty close are we ?
What else do we want ? Well, I would want them to interact with each other so that it looks like a very natural, spontaneous, sweet moment in time that captured their love for each other. How you do this depends a bit on the couple and it would make this article a little bit too long, so I’ll talk about this in a next article.
Next time you are shooting a couple give it a try, see what works for you and let me know how it went !
Pieter Van Impe